The most memorable ceremonies are often the least over-written. Start with the tone you want guests to feel when the ceremony begins, then build the words, music and transitions around that emotional direction.

Think about rhythm as much as wording. A strong ceremony moves naturally between welcome, story, promises and celebration without feeling rushed or over-explained.

Clare's approach is to listen first, shape the ceremony around the people at its heart, and keep every detail feeling natural, personal and true to the couple.